Lesley is a smart gal, a great mom, sweet neighbor, and all-around nice person. We first got to know one another when my daughter started being a mother’s helper to her last year. My daughter would amble on down to Lesley’s house for about an hour and receive a decent salary for her first job. Then when the hour was up and it was time to come home, Lesley would always text me to let me know my girl was on her way home.
Lesley has been one of the biggest supporters of my “Exercise Every Day For a Year” challenge. Since I started my daily exercise routine last April, we have been exercising together once a week. Lesley is a runner, so we started running in the mornings once a week. That ended pretty quickly when I remembered how much I disliked running, so we switched to walking. When it started to get darker in the winter, we switched to swimming at the community center pool.
I’d drive about 100 yards to her house and we’d chat for the 2 minutes it took for us to get to the pool (I know, I know, we could walk but I’m trying to save some time here). We’d go for our 20-minute swim**, then we’d soak in the hot tub and chat up a blue streak for about 5 more minutes. I would wash up and get dressed for work and she’d dash home to be with her kids so her husband could leave for work.
During those brief 7-10 minutes we spend together talking, I learn a lot about her: the apps she’s working on, what she hopes to do career-wise, how much she loves her kids, and how exhausting it can be caring for them when they’re sick or up at night. We talk about the intersections of career and motherhood and our struggles to find flexible work schedules that allow us to be there for our families and at the same time give us the freedom to pursue our passions.
I checked out her app, Achy Penguin, which is designed for kids 5 and under who experience frequent pain. I found it to be rather ingenious! You can blow your hurt out, listen to a fun story, get distracted by a skateboarding music video, do some relaxation and deep breathing, and download a picture of yourself so you can “freeze” the body part that hurts. And she’s got another app that helps kids deal with anger called Huffy Dragon, which she says has gotten 2500 downloads compared to 700 for Achy Penguin.
I am really inspired by her “can-do” attitude, especially what she said about learning to program: “Anyone can learn to program at any point in their life. It’s hard work, but it’s incredibly rewarding. Programming is one of those things that the more you learn, the more you realize you don’t know – but you just have to keep going.” It’s so true! Lately I have been learning about website platforms and HTML coding. It is a slow process and you need to do the same thing over and over to develop some sort of “muscle memory” as a co-worker calls it, before you really GET it. I mean, five years ago I would NEVER have imagined myself creating HTML code.
Thanks to Geekwire’s article, I know a lot more about Lesley and am excited to have my next chat with her soon!
**My parameter for exercise is that it must be for at least 20-30 minutes moving my body in some way: walking, swimming, biking, yoga, hiking, etc. But more on that later- my challenge is almost over and I will be sure to write a blog post about that.